Things every guy is afraid to do in front of his Woman



The gleam in your eyes can’t be ignored when your girl makes a claim, ‘I know you more than you’. But then, there is also an underlying grin to that gleam.

‘Really’- that’s what you say to yourself. Well, sure your girl doesn’t know it all. And she doesn’t know it all because you don’t show it all. Every man has his own secrets he would never let a woman know. There are things a man is afraid of caught doing by his woman:

Cry
No man seriously would want to cry in front of a woman, for whatever reason. Not because crying makes him look like the most ugly thing on the world, or because the sound he makes while crying is simply not bearable but because crying really degrades a man. More so when a woman is around! Do not even think about it! look at the guy!

Show they are broke!

There is no argument about this, at least he will concoct a reason why his wallet is empty. Now with mobile money and ATM cards in the mix. The excuses will come in all angles: “i have money on my ATM card” when the guy is Wandegeya, he will say he banks with FINA Bank yet the ATM card has the Equity Logo! And the ones that have no ATM excuse will simply say there is no net work for Mobile Money when you try to insist they use Warid pesa, guy will simply tell you he is not on Warid, forgetting he asked you to give him the warid number instead of MTN on the first date.

Emotions-

Although most women appreciate a man who can express his emotions, men can't fathom that to be true. They are afraid of women's, so they assume women will not want to see theirs, either. This is completely untrue. Sure, women want a strong man, but they don't equate emotion with weakness. Therein lies the confusion.

Financial Failure-

Since the days that men were the hunters and gatherers for their women and children, they have had it bred into them that they must provide sufficiently for their women and children. One of men's greatest fears is that they will not be able to do this, becoming (at least in their own eyes) financial failures.

Show that they are not ahead in Technology!

Bring all sorts of things; complex phones, computers, new cars, and the rest! I witnessed serious drama one time when a guy vibed a lady and asked for the telephone contact, when the lady gave the guy the phone to save his number? He struggled like for 10 minutes before finally saying: “ you touch screen is not fiber sensitive, you should look out for the phone like a I had last year..it had pneumonoltramicroscopic fibre..you could just raise your finger and it feels the touch”, may be you will send me your contact on face book”

They will seem like they know all the latest cars, they have even driven them, like they know all types and properties of each computer. Like they can repair any gadget! Eh!


Ten things that most men are afraid of but won't admit



1. Being embarrassed in public, especially to another man, is every man's worst fear. This has to be number one. No man likes to be outdone by another, especially in public, so every man is on guard so that he never 'loses face'.

2. Loneliness and Separation - most men are terrified of being lonely because they do not cope well on their own. Many have a hidden fear that their wives will leave them. It is said that Separation Anxiety is the only fear we are born with; all other fears are learned. It may be just as well that on average, women live five years longer than men.



3. Being considered a poor lover is a universal fear at some point for every man. How else can one explain the plethora of products now available to enhance the man's ability and 'staying power'.

4. Women with strong characters and women not afraid to stand up for themselves can be intimidating and frightening; yes men like a challenge and the thrill of the chase; but not too much of one.

5. Death and dying - men I think have a bigger fear of dying than women. Perhaps this is the ultimate form of Separation Anxiety. Did you know that men injured in the field of battle cry for their mothers.

6. Losing hair/ going bald - though somewhat less so than once, still many men today are terrified of becoming bald.

7. Failing - Men fear failure like women fear mice. The strongest man is the one who is the least afraid of failing.

8. Emotions and opening up - most men enjoy chatting to mates and having intimate conversations with ladies however, generally speaking this is at a superficial level compared to the emotional content displayed by women. For men emotions are energy sapping and often seen as 'wasteful', whereas women can be energised by them.

9. Their wives - most but not all men have a level of fear of their wives; women have the ability to 'make' or 'break' a man's ego identity. Most men are to some degree aware of this. Hence men may cock like crows, but nevertheless they tread warily.

10. Castration - this is a primordial fear and becomes sublimated in adulthood but is never completely lost. According to Freud's psycho-sexual analysis, girls have penis envy and battle with their mothers to win the affections of their father - the Electra Complex, while boys have a fear of castration, if their secret desire for their mothers is discovered - Oedipus Complex.

Therefore, apparently, a man is a complex web of ego defense mechanisms, held together by the love of a woman.









Most Romantic Things To Say to a girl...



Girlfriends are one of the best things in the world. They are like flowers in your garden, the birds in the sky, the star on top of your Christmas tree and the icing on your birthday cake. So go on, spoil her. Make her feel totally loved. Lovesick guys have sworn girlfriends are the next best thing to heaven. Get all chummy, cuddle up and take mental note of the following romantic things to say to yourgirlfriend --- guaranteed to make her fall in love with you every single day!

You look pretty without any make-up, just the way you are

Every woman is beautiful in her way. And she loves nothing more than being told so; especially by her man. When you see her next, admire her face, look deep into her eyes and say with all your heart how beautiful you think she is.

You're very beautiful.

 Girls make great importance with their appearance, judging on the amount of time they spend prepping up or retouching in the bathroom. So make their efforts worthwhile by at least letting them know your appreciation. It will go a long way I assure you.


You make me be a better man. 

Encouragement is very motivating and surprisingly, romantic. When your girl realizes that you make her your drive to make yourself a better person, chances are, she will do the same for you.

You complete me


Tom Cruise had all the women in the world go ‘aawww’ when he said these words to a demure Renee Zellweger. Though clichéd, ‘You complete me’ is the most wholesome and lovable thing you can tell your woman. It will melt her anger away in a jiffy and forgiveness shall be dispensed without further ado.

You are my companion, confidante, love and life

Simple, yet honest is always effective. Telling her that she is everything and anything you could ever ask for is the most wonderful way to get her to believe in your love for her.


I think about you all the time. Well, to tell you a secret, girls think about boys a lot too. They may seem distant or cold but believe me, their mind is focused on you and you alone. So boost her ego a little by telling her you think about her often aside from your favorite sports event.

You’re smile can brighten up the most dullest of days


Being Romantic in other words means showering her with compliments. Praising her hairstyle, getting mesmerized by her eyes and being bamboozled by her smile. When you want to lighten up her mood simply gush about her beauty and she’ll wrap you in her arms sooner than you could wish for a hug.

I love what I become when I am with you


Very few things can brighten a girl up as much as her knowing that she has a positive and great impact on your life and your being. Let her in on how she is an indispensable part of your life and that you are the best you will ever be thanks to her.









WAYS TO IMPROVE YOUR LOVE LIFE





Good relationships don’t just happen. I’ve heard many of my clients state that, “If I have to work at it, then it’s not the right relationship." This is not a true statement, any more than it’s true that you don’t have to work at good physical health through exercise, eating well, and stress reduction.

TAKE Responsibility for yourself.

This is the most important choice you can make to improve your relationship. This means that you learn how to take responsibility for your own feelings and needs. This means that instead of trying to get your partner to make you feel happy and secure, you learn how to do this for yourself through your own thoughts and actions. This means learning to treat yourself with kindness, caring, compassion, and acceptance instead of self-judgment. Self-judgment will always make you feel unhappy and insecure, no matter how wonderfully your partner is treating you.

Tell him what turns you on.

Instead of being bored in the bedroom, tell him what turns you on. If you want to be satisfied when it comes to sex, you can't be shy. Let him know what you like (and don't like), and encourage him to do the same.

Get away for the weekend.

You don't need a holiday as an excuse for a weekend together. Rent a cabin in the mountains or a room at a spa resort. Even if you don't go out of town, the change of scenery at a hotel or bed-and-breakfast can give your relationship a romantic boost.

Schedule sex.

Work, kids and other obligations can leave very little time for sex. So, put it on your calendar. On the first of the month, schedule sex appointments with your husband for the entire month. Do your best to keep every appointment.

Create date times.

When people first fall in love, they make time for each other. Then, especially after getting married, they get busy. Relationships need time to thrive. It is vitally important to set aside specific times to be together – to talk, play, make love. Intimacy cannot be maintained without time together.

Fun and play
We all know that “work without play makes Jack a dull boy." Work without play makes for dull relationships as well. Relationships flourish when people laugh together, play together, and when humor is a part of everyday life. Stop taking everything so seriously and learn to see the funny side of life. Intimacy flourishes when there is lightness of being, not when everything is heavy.

Stay fit & healthy.

What would a resolution list be without mentioning health and fitness? Instead of committing to losing X number of pounds, commit to staying fit and healthy. If you haven't had a checkup lately, schedule it today. Work out and shop for healthy foods together. Being fit and healthy will make you feel better about yourself -- and improve your sex life.

10 Ways to Boost the Romance

  • Leave a Polaroid of yourself in his briefcase or car. What you're wearing (or not wearing) is up to you!
  • Make an "I love you" coupon book that each of you can use when you feel like it. Some coupon ideas include: Kiss me here. Wear my favorite ___ . Act out a fantasy. Give me a 10-minute massage.
  • Plan a weekend away together. Make it an erotic vacation, no matter where you go. Bring toys and lubricant, order room service, have no contact with the outside world (unless it's an emergency), and indulge in food and drink. It doesn't have to be expensive, but if you want it to be, then make a plan for saving up — it'll give you something to look forward to.
  • Try a female-friendly erotic video. Contrary to popular belief, women benefit from watching sexy videos as much as men do. Maybe you'll be inspired to try something new. Pick a video that you think you'll like — it may not be his first choice, but he'll be thrilled anyway!
  • Call your partner in the middle of the day and explain what you want to do to him later that night. You can get graphic or you can be coy and seductive, with subtle, come-home-soon hints.
  • Have sex with your eyes open to heighten your connection. Keep your eyes locked on each other during the especially passionate moments (the ones we normally close our eyes during). Look at each other when one or both you orgasms.
  • Take a bath together. Make sure to include candles and essential oil, such as lavender oil. Take turns washing each other. Include a waterproof toy if you'd like.
  • Spend five minutes kissing — it's the only thing that will help you rediscover the passion and sensuality that your kisses hold! Plus, it can remind you of your first kiss.
  • Write him a note about your most memorable sexual encounter or time together. It will spark your memory and get the creative juices flowing.
  • Have a "giving" day. One of you agrees to completely give, with no expectations about what you'll get in return. From breakfast in bed to an out-of-the-ordinary treat to sex later that night, one of you shows your love for the other and thereby increases intimacy for both of you.













सौंदर्य के लिए फायदेमंद हल्दी



भारत में हल्‍दी का प्रयोग अक्‍सर हर खाने में होता है। यह किचन में ही काम आने वाला मसाला नहीं है बल्कि हमारे और आपके स्‍वास्‍थ्‍य और त्‍वचा के लिए भी काफी गुणकारी है। इसका त्‍वचा के लिए प्रयोग काफी समय से प्रसिद्ध है पर आजकल बाजार में तरह-तरह की क्रीम आ जाने से इसको लोग प्रयोग नहीं करते |

इन दिनों मौसम में संक्रमण बढ़ जाता है। रसोई में काम आने वाली हल्दी संक्रमण से बचाव का अच्छा उपाय हो सकती है। यह केवल एक मसाला नहीं बल्कि स्वास्थ्य के लिहाज से गुणकारी दवा भी है। सब्जी, दाल हो या फिर कोई और नमकीन व्यंजन। 

यहां तक कि कई मिठाइयों में भी हल्दी का प्रयोग किया जाता है। हल्दी लजीज व्यंजनों का स्वाद तो बढ़ाती ही है त्वचा, शरीर और पेट संबंधी कई रोगों में भी काम आती है। हल्दी के पौधे की जड़ से मिलने वाली गांठें ही नहीं, इसके पत्ते भी उपयोगी होते हैं। 

हल्‍दी के फायदे-

गुणकारी हल्दी के अलग-अलग लाभ उठाने के लिए आपको किसी वैद्य या विशेषज्ञ की शरण में जाने की जरूरत नहीं है। अपने घर पर ही छोटे-छोटे प्रयोग कर इसके अलग-अलग लाभ उठाए जा सकते हैं। 
  • आयुर्वेद के अनुसार, यह शरीर की रोग प्रतिरोधक क्षमता बढ़ाती है। खून को साफ करती है। महिलाओं की पीरियड से जुड़ी समस्याओं को भी दूर करती है। 
  • लीवर संबंधी समस्याओं में भी इसे गुणकारी माना जाता है। यही वजह है कि सर्दी-खांसी होने पर दूध में कच्ची हल्दी पाउडर डालकर पीने की सलाह दी जाती है। जरूरी है कि हल्दी को हमेशा एयर टाइट कंटेनर में रखें ताकि इसके स्वाद और गुणवत्ता में कोई कमी नहीं आए।
  • पेट में कीड़े होने पर 1 चम्मच हल्दी पाउडर रोज सुबह खाली पेट एक सप्ताह तक ताजा पानी के साथ लेने से कीड़े खत्म हो सकते हैं। चाहें तो इस मिश्रण में थोड़ा नमक भी मिला सकते हैं। इससे भी फायदा होगा।
  • हल्‍दी शरीर या त्‍वचा पर पड़े पिगमेंटेशन को दूर करने में लाभप्रद है। इसका प्रयोग करने के लिए थोड़ी सी हल्‍दी को पीस कर उसमें नींबू की कुछ बूंदे मिलाइये या फिर चाहें तो इसको खीरे के साथ भी मिक्‍सी में पीस कर लगा सकती हैं।
  • हल्‍दी का इस्‍तमाल आपको एक बार नहीं बल्कि अच्‍छा रिजल्‍ट देखना है तो कई बार करना चाहिये। चेहरे पर पिंपल आ गए हों तो हल्‍दी पाउडर और उसमें चंदन तथा पानी मिला कर पेस्‍ट तैयार करें और चेहरे पर लगाएं। इससे पिंपल जल्‍दी ही ठीक हो जाएगें। हल्‍दी उन सभी क्रीमों से बेहतरीन होती है जो बाजार में अच्‍छी होने का दावा करती हैं।
  • .यह बॉडी स्‍क्रब का भी काम करता है। बस नहाने से पहले हल्‍दी पाउडर, पानी और आंटे का पेस्‍ट बनाइये और शरीर पर रगडिये। ऐसा कई बार लगातार करने से आपका शरीर चमक उठेगा और स्‍वस्‍थ्‍य रहेगा। 
  • अगर हालही में आपकी शादी होने वाली है तो इस पेस्‍ट को अभी से ही लगाना शुरु कर दें।.अगर गर्भावस्‍था के दौरान आपके पेट पर स्‍ट्रैच मार्क्‍स आ गए हैं और अब जा नहीं रहे हैं तो, हल्‍दी को दही के साथ प्रयोग करें। इस पेस्‍ट को रोज अपने पेट पर 6 मिनट तक के लिए लगाएं। ऐसा करने से स्‍ट्रेच मार्क्‍स धीरे धीरे चले जाएगें।
  • .वे लोग जो अपने मुंह पर अनचाहे बाल से परेशान हैं, उनको हल्‍दी लगानी चाहिये। लगातार इसको लगाने से चेहरे से बाल धीरे धीरे कम होने लगेगें।.
  • अगर आपने अपने हाथों को किचन में खाना बनाते वक्‍त जला लिया है तो उस पर हल्‍दी और एलो वेरा जैल लगा लीजिये। इससे जलन कम होगी और हाथों में दाग भी नहीं पड़ेगा।
  •  हल्‍दी से दांत संबधि बीमारी भी ठीक हो जाती है। अगर संक्रमण है तो हल्‍दी, सेंधा नमक और सरसों के तेल का पेस्‍ट बनाएं और इसको दिन में तीन बार अपने संक्रमण वाली जगहं पर रखें। इसके बाद गरम पानी से अपने मुंह को धो लें, इससे आपका रोग बिल्‍कुल ठीक हो जाएगा।
  •  अगर आपको सुस्‍ती और थकान लग रही है तो हल्‍दी और शहद को मिला कर पीजिये। अगर आपके अंदर खून की कमी है तो भी यह मिश्रण आपके लिए रामबाण से कम नहीं होगा। हल्‍दी को पानी के साथ पीने से पेचिश से भी राहत मिलती है।

चेहरे से दाग-धब्बे मिटाने के लिए 

  • चेहरे से दाग-धब्बे मिटाना खुद आप ही के बस की बात है। आजमाइए कुछ छोटे-छोटे टिप्स : 
  • सूखी हल्दी की गाँठ को नींबू के रस में मिलाकर लगाने से फेस के दाग-धब्बे तेजी से मिटने लगते हैं। 
  • ड्राय स्कीन के दाग-धब्बे मिटाने के लिए दूध में चंदन की लकड़ी घिसकर लगाएँ। 
  • ऑइली स्कीन के दाग-धब्बे मिटाने के लिए चंदन का पाउडर रोज-वाटर(गुलाब जल) में मिलाकर लगाएँ। यह नुस्खा विशेष रूप से हॉट सीजन में लाभकारी है। 
  • चोट के निशान पर लाल चंदन हर रोज पानी में घिस कर लगाएँ 20 दिन में फर्क नजर आने लगेगा। 
  • टोमेटो में नींबू की दस-बारह ड्रॉप मिलाएँ इस मिश्रण को चेहरे पर लगाने से दाग-धब्बे दूर होते हैं। 
  • अक्सर पेट की गड़बड़ी से चेहरे पर दाग-धब्बे नजर आते हैं अत: दिन में कम से कम तीन बार नींबू पानी पिएँ, कुछ ही हफ्तों में चेहरा चमकने लगेगा।

हल्दी के दाग कैसे छूरायें......

हल्दी के दाग कैसे छूरायें

  1.  धब्बे पर बेसन का पेस्ट बनाकर लगाएं |कुछ देर लगा रहने दें | कपड़ा धोने के बाद धुप में सुखाएं तो धब्बा छूट जायेगा |
  2. दाग पर हाईडरोंजन पेरोक्साइड की कुछ बूंदे लगाकर धुप में रख दें |
  3. यदि वस्त्र रेशमी व उनी है तो उसे पोटाशियम परमैगनेट व अमोनिया के घोल में बारी-बारी से २-३ बार डालें |
  4. पुराने धब्बे को ब्लीच पाउडर से ब्लीच करके साबुन व पानी से धो दें |
  5. साबुन और पानी का एक पेस्ट बनाकर उसे दाग के दोनों तरफ मलें फिर सूखने पर गर्म पानी १ या २ फिट की ऊँचाई से डालें |
  6. हल्दी के दाग कपड़े धोने के सोडे से साफ़ किये जा सकते हैं |
  7. यदि दाग ताज़ा है तो साबुन से धोकर धुप में सुखाने से ही साफ़ हो जाएगा |
  8. सब्जी के दाग पर आलू रगरें फिर कपड़े को धुप में आधे घंटे के लिए रखें |पुन :साबुन व पानी से धोएं,दाग काफी हल्का पर जाएगा |
  9. सब्जी के धब्बे पर नमक व सुहागा डालकर उबलता हुआ पानी दाल दें और जब तक धब्बा न उतरे यही प्रक्रिया दोहराते रहें |
  10. हल्दी के दाग पर स्पिरिट लगाने से दाग दूर हो जाता है |

कपड़ों के अन्य दाग दूर करने के उपाए :


  1. पान के दाग को मिटाने के लिए कपड़े को खट्टे दही में भिगोकर धो दें।
  2. चॉकलेट, कोको के दाग सूखने पर पक्के हो जाते हैं। इनके ताजे दागों पर थोड़ा टैलकम पाउडर लगा कर सुखा लें फिर गर्म पानी से धो डालें। 
  3. आइसक्रीम के दागों को छुड़ाने के लिए उस पर अमोनिया का घोल डालें। 
  4. खून के दाग पर नमक रगड़ें और धो दें। 
  5. पेंट के दाग को छुड़ाने के लिए उस पर मिट्टी का तेल लगाएं और फिर गर्म पानी से धो दें।
  6. फ्रूट जूस के दाग हटाने के लिए कपड़े को अमोनिया में भिगोएं। कुछ देर बाद पानी से धो दें।
  7. पेन या स्याही के दाग हटाने के लिए डिटॉल में भिगोई रुई को दाग पर रगड़ें और फिर उसे धो दें।
  8. हल्दी के दाग पर पहले साबुन लगाएं और जब दाग हल्का हो जाए तो उसे धूप में रखें, फिर गर्म पानी से धो डालें।
  9. मेंहदी के दाग हटाने के लिए जिस चीज पर दाग लगा है, उसे गर्म दूध में आधे घंटे तक भिगोएं और साबुन से धोएं।
  10. लिपिस्टिक का दाग हटाने के लिए मिथाइलेटेड स्प्रिट में भिगोकर उसे साबुन से धो दें। या फिर ग्लिसरीन में आधा घंटे भिगोने के बाद धो दें।
  11. स्याही का दाग अगर सफेद सूती कपड़े पर लग जाए तो उस पर टमाटर काटकर उसे नमक से रगड़ें या फिर नमक और नीबू का रस दाग पर लगाकर आधे घंटे के लिए छोड़ दें।

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Tips for Communicating with your Partner About Sex

Communicating about your sexual needs is how to get them satisfied!

Communication is by far the most important ‘sexual enhancement’, because when you’re engaged in each other mentally it’s easier to connect sexually. There’s also the fact that your partner can’t read your mind, so helping them out by communicating your sexual needswill just make it that much more likely to get exactly what satisfies you!

There are a lot of reasons to keep the communication lines open when it comes to your sexual needs, however there is one aspect that is paramount. Recognizing that keeping your mind open to your partners needs builds intimacy & trust…two things that also result in hotter sex!

This article is about communicating your partner about your sexual needs as well as suggestions on how to be open to your partners desires. A list of tips for communicating duringsex will be coming up next!

Here are seven simple and easy tips to communicate effectively: 

1. Say what you mean and mean what you say.

2. Do what you say and say what you do.

3. Your thoughts and feelings, needs and wants, likes and dislikes are valid and legitimate. It is your job to own your internal experience. That means identify what is going on for you inside yourself, learn to language it and find the courage to express it. Ownership implies that you know and believe that you are okay with who you are, and how you experience and react to your inside and outside worlds. Other people do not have to understand or agree in order for your experiences to be valid, legitimate and respected. This is about you!

4. Other people's feelings are also legit. Just as your thoughts and feelings, needs and wants, likes and dislikes and internal experiences are valid and legitimate, so are those things of others. You may or may not understand. Please, respect their experience(s). Your response? Agree to disagree. Accept without agreeing. This is about them! This is not about you.

5. Pay attention to needs. When a need is unmet it becomes an issue. We have many opportunities to experience and express issues in our marriages. Common ways to respond, although unproductive and harmful, are to complain, blame and criticize. Next time you experience an issue try making a request. Identify what you need or want or what you want someone to do or say differently, then, make a request. Focus on what you want to happen, instead of what isn’t happening or what happened that you didn’t like.

6. Learn to tell your whole truth. Notice I didn’t say the truth. Your truth is your recognition of what you are experiencing inside yourself and outside of yourself at any given moment. If you are experiencing an upset or a disappointment, you may know or understand less about what you are experiencing than at other times. Find the courage to say as much as you can about what you think, feel, need and want. When you have more clarity or additional knowing be sure to share them with you partner.

7. Be a good listener. Listening is an essential and valuable skill. Becoming a good listener takes time and practice, and is enormously appreciated by others. When you are engaged in a meaningful conversation, say to your spouse, "Tell me more." This is a special invitation that conveys your interest, and intention to listen and really know them and understand the issue.

Tips for Communicating with Your Partner WRITE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS AND CONCERNS.

Sure, you may not view writing about your feelings and concerns as communicating well, but it does help. When you are writing about your feelings and concerns, it will help you clarify the issues you are having by yourself. This is a good way to practice the way you are going to communicate with your partner.

WRITING A LETTER.

Remember back when you used to write love letters to your partner when things were just starting out? Sometimes, the best way to communicate with your partner about sex would be to write them a letter. Sure, this may sound old school, but sometimes, writing is better. Personally, I can communicate better writing letters with people. When you write the letter, you will also be looking at things from a different perspective.

PRACTICE TALKING.

If you are nervous about speaking with your partner, then practicing will help you. You can practice with a friend you can trust or you can sit in front of a mirror alone and talk.

GIVE YOUR PARTNER TIME.

When you are speaking with your partner about sex, give them time to process everything that you have said. Time will allow both you and the partner to respond correctly. This way, the both of you will not feel pressured or rushed. Take note that sexual communication is an ongoing process.

EYE CONTACT.

When you are communicating with your partner, it is important that you keep eye contact. This way, you will be able to connect with one another emotionally.

DON’T RAISE YOUR VOICE.

When you are communicating with each other, there is no need to raise your voice. If your partner does not see eye to eye with you, then do not get mad at him or her. Just tell them you wish they would think about what you are talking about. Tell them you will give it some time. Together, the both of you can come up with a way that you both agree on.

OPENING LINES.

If you are having a problem communicating with your partner about sex, then you can come up with an opening line that will ease those problems. When I say opening lines, I do not mean “I need to talk to you.” I mean, if you are having problems with premature ejaculation start off by something like “Do you enjoy your sex life?” After the opening line, see what your partner says and then take it from there.

 BE UNDERSTANDING.

There are chances that your partner is just like you and has a hard time communicating about sex. You need to be understanding. If they are quiet, then this is because they are embarrassed. Ask them if they are embarrassed, tell them not to be embarrassed that you just want things to be better.

BE COMFORTABLE.

When you are talking with your partner about anything, it is important that you are comfortable. As you are speaking with them, you should also have a clear mind and not be worrying about anything else.



Those are top tips on how to communicate with your partner about sex. Personally, I enjoy writing a letter (or an email) to my partner to get my problems out. I also enjoy talking with my husband through instant messenger. I find it easier to communicate this way, plus it is fun as it brings back memories of the old days. Do you have any problems communicating with your partner? How have you addressed these problems?





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